Friday, September 18, 2026

Beyond the Couch: Why Psychology Must Serve, Not Sovereign, in Seminary Formation

 

A critical response to “Not Every Priest Should Be Allowed Near a Seminary Formation Team”





Introduction

The article (certainly with AI assistance!), found on WhatsApp titled “Not Every Priest Should Be Allowed Near a Seminary Formation Team” uploaded by Sr. Jaisy SMI,  is right about several things. Harshness passed off as discipline is real, and so are formators who read every struggle as a lack of vocation. Its closing line, however, gives the game away: “competence in understanding the human person must become the essential part of priestly formation itself.” Its remedy is more training in psychology, pedagogy, counselling and emotional intelligence, and it never mentions grace, prayer, discernment, the Holy Spirit or the mystery of a vocation.

The text also reads as machine-assembled. It repeats the same thesis in its second-last and last paragraphs, leans on stock analogies (pilots, doctors, canon lawyers), and offers rhetorical triplets (“Not every silence is humility…”) in place of argument. The article claims “human beings are not machines,” yet it proposes a formation that is largely technical: acquire the right competencies and the seminarian’s “problem” will be solved.

This response does not reject the human sciences. It argues that they are servants of formation, not its foundation. A seminarian is a mystery before he is a case, and the Church’s own documents say so.

1. What the Article Gets Right, and Where the Church Agrees

The Church has never taught that formators may ignore the human person. Pastores Dabo Vobis insists that “in order that his ministry may be humanly as credible and acceptable as possible, it is necessary that the priest should mould his human personality in such a way that it becomes a bridge and not an obstacle for others in their meeting with Jesus Christ” (John Paul II, Pastores Dabo Vobis [PDV], 1992, n. 43).

Ratio Fundamentalis Institutionis Sacerdotalis (RFIS, Congregation for the Clergy, 2016) likewise treats human formation as “the necessary foundation” of the whole edifice, and it takes maturity, affectivity and freedom seriously (cf. RFIS, nn. 89–100). The Congregation for Catholic Education’s Guidelines for the Use of Psychology in the Admission and Formation of Candidates for the Priesthood (2008) also permits a prudent use of psychological expertise where it is needed.

So the article’s concern is legitimate. The disagreement is over ordering and proportion, and over what a formator is fundamentally for.

2. The Article’s Central Flaw: A Reduced Anthropology

The article’s opening sentence treats the seminarian as a bundle of “emotions, fears, family wounds, psychological struggles, temperamental differences… hormonal realities.” All of these are real. But the list is missing the centre of the person: the soul made for God, called by name, and marked by grace.

The Second Vatican Council teaches that “only in the mystery of the incarnate Word does the mystery of man take on light” (Gaudium et Spes, 1965, n. 22). Man is not finally explained by psychology or any other science. He is explained by Christ, and he remains a mystery even after every diagnostic category has been applied. Some consequences follow from this.

         A vocation is not a personality profile. It is a call, and its origin is God, not the seminarian’s temperament (cf. PDV, n. 35).

         Grace is not reducible to emotional health. The saints include the anxious, the scrupulous, the introverted and the wounded. Formation must not treat a woundedness that grace is already transfiguring as though it were a defect to be managed.

         Mystery cannot be “solved.” The article’s language of understanding, perceiving and mastering the human mind slides into a managerial mindset. The Church asks formators instead to stand before something sacred.

Pope Francis expresses this posture well: the art of accompaniment “teaches us to remove our sandals before the sacred ground of the other” (Evangelii Gaudium, 2013, n. 169). One removes one’s sandals before a mystery. One does not do so before a case file.

3. The Missing Centre: Spiritual Formation as the “Core”

The article never uses the word “spiritual” except as a pejorative (“pious vocabulary,” “spiritual slogans”). The Church’s documents give it a very different place.

         Optatam Totius teaches that seminarians must be trained “to live in intimate and unceasing union with the Father through His Son Jesus Christ in the Holy Spirit” (Vatican II, Optatam Totius [OT], 1965, n. 8).

         Pastores Dabo Vobis describes spiritual formation as “the core which unifies and gives life to his being a priest and his acting as a priest” (PDV, n. 45).

         RFIS places the spiritual dimension at the heart of the formative process, alongside the human, intellectual and pastoral dimensions, and it grounds all four in discipleship and configuration to Christ the Good Shepherd (cf. RFIS, nn. 28–34, 101–115).

The four dimensions are meant to be integrated, and none of them is meant to become the “essential part” that governs the rest. An article that elevates the human dimension above the others has quietly reversed the Church’s order.

4. Psychology Is an Auxiliary Tool, Not the Norm

The Church has been explicit here, and the article ignores it. The 2008 Guidelines on psychology repeatedly stress that psychological expertise is an aid to the discernment carried out by the Church’s own formators, and that it cannot replace spiritual direction, the judgement of the formation team, or the discernment of the bishop or superior. The Guidelines also caution that the psychological approach must be consonant with a Christian anthropology, since some schools of psychology rest on assumptions about the human person that Catholic teaching cannot accept.

This point matters. The article speaks of “Modern Psychology” as if it were one unified and neutral science. In fact:

         Psychology contains competing schools with different (sometimes contradictory) views of human nature, freedom, sin and sexuality.

         Some of these views treat guilt, self-denial or obedience as pathologies, which is incompatible with the Gospel.

         A formator trained without a robust Christian anthropology may import these assumptions uncritically and end up “healing” what the Church would call sanctification.

The safeguard is a formator whose primary formation is spiritual and theological, who draws on the human sciences critically and with humility, and who knows where their competence ends. Credentialing a formator mainly by his psychology training turns the safeguard upside down.

5. The Analogies Fail

The article argues that the Church trains canon lawyers, doctors and pilots before letting them practise, so formators need psychological training. The analogies are weaker than they look.

         Lawyers, doctors and pilots exercise technical skills. A formator’s primary work is spiritual paternity, the accompaniment of a soul toward God. The proper comparison is not with a technician but with a father, a shepherd, a spiritual master.

         The Church’s saints were formators too. St. John Vianney, St. Francis de Sales and St. Ignatius (who wrote the Spiritual Exercises before modern psychology existed) all formed souls with extraordinary wisdom. They did so through prayer, discernment of spirits, and long personal holiness.

         The formator forms by who he is. RFIS speaks of formators as those who “accompany” and bear witness through their own lives (cf. RFIS, nn. 129–139, on the formation of formators). A seminarian learns the priesthood chiefly by seeing it lived.

The article would ask whether a formator has the right credentials. The Church asks first whether he is a man of prayer, faithful to his own priesthood, and able to be a credible witness.

6. Formation Is a Work of Art, Not Only a Method

Pope Francis, addressing seminarians and novices in 2013, warned against two opposite errors: formation as rigid policing and formation as a purely technical exercise. He said, in effect, that formation is “a work of art, not a police action,” and that the aim is to form hearts (Francis, Address to Seminarians, Novices and Those Discerning a Vocation, 6 July 2013). It is a fine warning against harshness.

But notice the phrase “work of art.” An artist is not a technician following a protocol. He works with something given, and he cooperates with a design that is not his own. In priestly formation, that design is God’s. The formator is a collaborator with the Holy Spirit, not the engineer of a finished product.

The article’s “systemic” mentality (train the formator, fix the pipeline, produce emotionally balanced priests) forgets this. Formation is not a factory, and the Church says as much when she calls it “a continuous journey of discipleship” (cf. RFIS, nn. 3, 57; PDV, n. 70).

7. What Seminarians Need “Much More” Of

Seminarians need competent, humane formators. But they need more than competence, and the Church’s documents point to what this “more” includes.

         Formators who are men of prayer. A formator who does not pray cannot lead others into prayer, whatever his degrees.

         Serious spiritual direction. The Church requires it and treats the spiritual director as central to formation (cf. PDV, n. 40; RFIS, nn. 44–48, 107–109).

         A sacramental life. Formation is nourished by the Eucharist, Reconciliation, the Liturgy of the Hours and Marian devotion, which heal and shape the person in ways no technique reaches (cf. PDV, n. 48).

         Discernment of spirits. The tradition of Ignatius, Teresa and John of the Cross teaches how to read consolation, desolation, temptation and the movements of grace. This is a spiritual skill that psychology does not replace.

         A contemplative gaze. Formators should look at a seminarian’s struggles with faith as well as with insight. What looks like a psychological knot may be a stage of the dark night, and what looks like a spiritual failing may need clinical help. Only a formator who is both spiritually and humanly formed can tell the difference.

         Fatherhood. PDV describes the priest’s ministry as spiritual fatherhood. A seminarian needs a father before he needs an evaluator.

8. A Balanced Proposal

Rather than the article’s “essential part,” a more faithful formulation would be the following.

         Integration, not substitution. The four dimensions of formation (human, spiritual, intellectual, pastoral) grow together (RFIS, nn. 27–34).

         Selection of formators by holiness first. PDV insists that formators be chosen with great care, as men of sound doctrine, pastoral experience and spiritual depth (cf. PDV, n. 66).

         Psychology as consultant. Qualified, morally sound and Christian-anthropology-aware professionals should be available for referral, as the 2008 Guidelines provide, but the formation team retains the responsibility to discern.

         Basic human formation for all formators. Every formator should have a working grasp of human development, listening skills and the dynamics of accompaniment. This is reasonable, but it is a complement to spiritual competence and not the criterion.

         Continuing formation of formators. This should include retreats, spiritual direction and theological renewal alongside human-science training.

Conclusion

The article warns rightly against formators who mistake trauma for rebellion or punish what they do not understand. But it offers a diagnosis and a cure that are both too small. The diagnosis is that formators lack psychological training, and the cure is more of it. The Church’s own teaching says the deeper need is for formators who are men of God, who see the seminarian as a mystery to be reverenced and a son to be fathered, and who use the human sciences as instruments in the service of grace.

Man is, as Gaudium et Spes teaches, a mystery illumined only in Christ. A formation that forgets this may produce priests who are well-adjusted, emotionally literate and professionally competent, and still leave them without the interior life that alone sustains a priest for forty years. The Church needs priests who are human and holy, and formators who can say to a seminarian, with St. Paul, that “it is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me” (Gal 2:20).

Note: Quotations are from standard English translations.

Here is the text of the original articleNOT EVERY PRIEST SHOULD BE ALLOWED NEAR A SEMINARY FORMATION TEAM.

In this century, it has become dangerously outdated to assume that every priest automatically qualifies to become a seminary formator simply because he wears a cassock, has a loud voice at conferences, or can quote Latin documents from memory. Human beings are not machines assembled with spiritual slogans.

A seminarian is a complex human person carrying emotions, fears, family wounds, psychological struggles, temperamental differences, social pressures, intellectual anxieties, hormonal realities, and personal history. Forming such a person requires more than pious vocabulary and disciplinary aggression disguised as “formation.”

It is becoming increasingly necessary that priests appointed as seminary formators undergo rigorous training in Modern Psychology, Human Development, Guidance and Counselling, Emotional Intelligence, and Pastoral Accompaniment before being entrusted with the delicate task of forming future priests.

Not every silence is humility. Not every extrovert is unserious. Not every reserved seminarian is proud. Not every struggling student is lazy. And not every emotionally wounded young man needs more punishment delivered with holy water.

Unfortunately, many formators were trained in environments where every human difficulty was interpreted either as “lack of vocation,” “spiritual weakness,” or “disobedience,” while basic psychological realities were ignored completely. Then years later, we become surprised when some priests carry unresolved emotional instability into ministry.

The truth is that one cannot adequately guide what one does not adequately understand.

The Church trains canon lawyers before allowing them judge cases. She trains doctors before allowing them touch the sick. Pilots are not sent into the air merely because they love aviation. It would therefore be intellectually inconsistent to consider psychological and human-scientific formation unnecessary in the very area where the Church is shaping future priests who will spend their lives dealing with human souls, emotions, crises, families, grief, loneliness, conflict, and moral struggles.

A formator must know theology, yes! but he must also understand the human person standing before him. Otherwise, he may mistake trauma for rebellion, exhaustion for indiscipline, introversion for arrogance, or emotional distress for lack of prayer.

The future of the priesthood will depend not only on how spiritually sound our formators are, but also on how psychologically educated, emotionally mature, intellectually balanced, and humanly perceptive they become.

Monday, July 27, 2026

মঞ্চের রাজনীতি, ধর্মীয় মুখোশ, আর খ্র্রীষ্টান নেতৃত্বের নৈতিক সংকট

 


পশ্চিমবঙ্গের এক রাজনৈতিক সমাবেশে খ্র্রীষ্টান  পাস্টর ও বিশপদের মঞ্চে দাঁড়ানোকে সরল সৌজন্য বা আন্তধর্মীয় সম্প্রীতির নিদর্শন বলে মেনে নেওয়া যায় না। এটি বরং এমন এক দৃশ্য, যেখানে ক্ষমতার কাছাকাছি থাকার লোভ, পরিচয়ের রাজনীতি, আর নৈতিক অবস্থানের ধোঁয়াশা একসঙ্গে মিশে গেছে। যে জোটের অদৃশ্য কিন্তু অনিবার্য ছায়ায় বিজেপি ও আরএসএস দাঁড়িয়ে আছে, সেই জোটের মঞ্চে ধর্মীয় নেতাদের হাসিমুখে দাঁড়ানো—এটা অনেকের কাছে আত্মরক্ষা মনে হতে পারে, কিন্তু সমান সংখ্যক মানুষের কাছে এটি আত্মসমর্পণ কারণ, যে রাজনৈতিক জোটের কেন্দ্রীয় কাঠামোয় বিজেপি ও আরএসএস অনিবার্যভাবে যুক্ত, সেই জোটের রাজনৈতিক চরিত্র সমগ্র দেশকে ধর্মীয় মেরুকরণ, সন্দেহ এবং নির্বাচনী লাভের রাজনীতিতে ঠেলে দিয়েছে—এ কথা নতুন করে প্রমাণের প্রয়োজন নেই। এমন একটি মঞ্চে খ্র্রীষ্টান  ধর্মগুরুদের উপস্থিতি তাই স্বাভাবিক ধর্মীয় অংশগ্রহণ নয়; বরং তা এক গভীর নৈতিক বিভ্রান্তি, যার উত্তর পাওয়া দরকার

প্রথম প্রশ্নটি সরাসরি: এই পাস্টর ও বিশপরা কার প্রতিনিধিত্ব করছেন? ওইসব খ্র্রীষ্টান  নেতা কি সত্যিই তাঁদের মন্ডলী, তাঁদের বিশ্বাসী সমাজ, এবং তাঁদের ধর্মীয় শৃঙ্খলার প্রতিনিধিত্ব করছেন? তাঁদের অভিষেক, প্রশিক্ষণ, স্বীকৃতি এবং মন্ড্লীগত শৃঙ্খলার বৈধতা কোথায়? নাকি তাঁরা এমন এক পরিচয় নির্মাণ করছেন, যা মাইক, ক্যামেরা, আর রাজনৈতিক হাততালির ওপর দাঁড়িয়ে আছে? যদি তাঁদের অভিষেক, প্রশিক্ষণ, বা চার্চ-স্বীকৃতি স্পষ্ট না হয়, তাহলে তাঁদের “পাস্টর” বা “বিশপ” পরিচয় জনপরিসরে আনা কতটা বৈধ—সেটিও প্রশ্নসাপেক্ষ। যদি তাঁরা সত্যিই প্রতিষ্ঠিত মন্ডলী-শৃঙ্খলার অধীনে দায়িত্বপ্রাপ্ত হন, তাহলে তাঁদের অবস্থান প্রকাশ্যে স্বচ্ছ হওয়া উচিত। আর যদি তাঁরা স্বঘোষিত নেতৃত্বের আড়ালে রাজনৈতিক মঞ্চে নিজেকে প্রতিষ্ঠিত করতে চান, তবে সেটি শুধু নৈতিকভাবে ভুল নয়, বিশ্বাসভঙ্গের শামিল। ধর্মীয় পদবি শুধু একটি নাম নয়; তা দায়িত্ব, শৃঙ্খলা, এবং জবাবদিহির দাবি করে। সেই দাবি যদি না থাকে, তবে মঞ্চে দাঁড়ানোটা হয়ে যায় একটি সাজানো অভিনয় খ্রীষ্টীয়  নেতৃত্ব কোনো ব্যক্তিগত প্রচার-যন্ত্র নয়। এটি ক্ষমতার কাছে উপস্থিত হয়ে public recognition আদায়ের মাধ্যমও নয়

আরও উদ্বেগজনক হলো, এই উপস্থিতি কি বিজেপি-শাসিত বা বিজেপি-প্রভাবিত রাজনৈতিক পরিসরের নিরাপদ আশ্রয় খোঁজার কৌশল? তাঁরা কি ক্ষমতার নিরাপদ পাশে দাঁড়াতে চাইছেন? ? বিজেপি-শাসিত বা বিজেপি-প্রভাবিত শাসনব্যবস্থার সঙ্গে ঘনিষ্ঠতা তৈরি করলে হয়তো কিছু প্রশাসনিক সুবিধা, কিছু public visibility, কিছু “সম্মান” পাওয়া যায়। কিন্তু সেই সম্মান কি সত্যিকারের, না কি ভয়ের আবরণে পাওয়া সার্টিফিকেট? পশ্চিমবঙ্গসহ দেশে যখন খ্র্রীষ্টানদের বিরুদ্ধে হামলা, চার্চ ভাঙচুর, প্রার্থনায় বাধা,সামাজিক নিপীড়নের এবং প্রশাসনিক অসহযোগিতার অভিযোগ উঠছে, তখন কিছু ধর্মীয় নেতা ক্ষমতাশালী শাসনের ছায়ায় দাঁড়িয়ে নিজেকে সুরক্ষিত করতে চাইছেন কি না—এই প্রশ্ন অবধারিতভাবে ওঠে। যদি তাই হয়, তবে তা নেতৃত্ব নয়; তা সুবিধাবাদ। অভিযোগ উঠে আসে, তখন ক্ষমতার পাশে দাঁড়িয়ে থাকা কিছু ধর্মীয় নেতার ছবি এক ধরনের আত্মরক্ষার ছদ্মবেশ ছাড়া আর কিছু মনে হয় না

এখানেই সবচেয়ে কুৎসিত সত্যটা সামনে আসে। যে রাজনৈতিক জোটকে ঘিরে বারবার communal division, propaganda, এবং ভোট-ধ্রুবীকরণের অভিযোগ উঠেছে, তার মঞ্চে দাঁড়িয়ে কোনো খ্র্রীষ্টান  নেতা যদি নিজের সম্প্রদায়ের পক্ষে কথা বলেন, তবে সেটি তখনই বিশ্বাসযোগ্য হয়, যখন তিনি একই সঙ্গে সেই জোটের বিভাজনমূলক রাজনীতির বিরুদ্ধেও স্পষ্ট অবস্থান নেন। কিন্তু যদি তিনি কেবল মঞ্চের সাজসজ্জা হয়ে থাকেন, তবে তিনি সম্প্রদায়ের কণ্ঠ নন—তিনি প্রচারণার উপকরণ আর সুবিধাবাদের ধর্মীয় রূপ সবচেয়ে বিপজ্জনক, কারণ তা বিশ্বাসীদের চোখে আধ্যাত্মিকতা হিসেবে ধরা পড়ে, অথচ ভিতরে থাকে ভীতু সমঝোতা

এই মঞ্চে “সংখ্যালঘু সুরক্ষা” বা “সমতার” বুলি যতই উচ্চারিত হোক, বাস্তবতা অন্য কথা বলে। বিজেপি-আরএসএস-ঘনিষ্ঠ রাজনৈতিক ভাষ্য দীর্ঘদিন ধরেই সমাজে বিভাজন, সন্দেহ এবং ধর্মীয় উসকানিকে স্বাভাবিক করে তুলেছে। যে রাজনৈতিক বাতাবরণ একটি দেশকে “আমরা” আর “ওরা” ভাগে খণ্ডিত করে, সেই পরিবেশে দাঁড়িয়ে ধর্মীয় নেতার আশীর্বাদ দেওয়া মানে কেবল নিরীহ উপস্থিতি নয়—তা এক ধরনের বৈধতা প্রদান। আর সেই বৈধতাই পরে প্রচারযন্ত্রে ব্যবহার হয়। মঞ্চে একজন পাস্টর বা বিশপ থাকলেই যদি খ্র্রীষ্টান  সমাজের সমর্থন বলে প্রচার করা যায়, তবে সেটি প্রতারণার রাজনৈতিক কৌশল ছাড়া আর কী?

খ্র্রীষ্টান  সমাজের পক্ষ থেকে এখানে আরও কঠোর জবাবদিহি দাবি করা উচিত। এই লোকগুলো কারা? তাঁদের মন্ডলী কোথায়? তাঁদের অধ্যক্ষ কারা? তাঁদের ordination কোথা থেকে? তাঁদের training, accountability, ecclesial discipline কোথায়? কোন মন্ডলী তাঁদের এই ধরনের রাজনৈতিক মঞ্চে যাওয়ার অনুমোদন দিয়েছে? কোন সিনড, কোন ডায়োসিস, কোন ফেলোশিপ, কোন চার্চ কাউন্সিল তাঁদের প্রতিনিধিত্ব স্বীকার করেছে? নাকি তাঁরা কেবল ক্যামেরার সামনে দাঁড়িয়ে ধর্মীয় পোশাকের মর্যাদাকে রাজনৈতিক শোভায় পরিণত করছেন? নাকি তাঁরা কেবল এমন কিছু স্বঘোষিত আধ্যাত্মিক মুখ, যারা ধর্মীয় পোশাককে রাজনৈতিক পাসপোর্টে পরিণত করেছেন? আজকের দিনে ধর্মীয় পরিচয় ব্যবহার করে ক্ষমতার টেবিলে জায়গা নেওয়া খুব সহজ। কঠিন হলো সেই পরিচয়ের নৈতিক পরীক্ষা পাস করা। আর সেখানেই এইসব নেতার দুর্বলতা ধরা পড়ে যে কেউ বাইবেল ধরে মঞ্চে উঠলেই তিনি যাজক হয়ে যান না। আর যে কেউ বিশপের পোশাক পরলেই তাঁর নৈতিক কর্তৃত্ব জন্মায় না। নেতৃত্বের প্রথম শর্ত হলো বিশ্বাসযোগ্যতা। আর বিশ্বাসযোগ্যতা আসে স্বচ্ছতা, শৃঙ্খলা এবং সত্যনিষ্ঠা থেকে

সবচেয়ে কষ্টদায়ক বিষয় হলো, এই ধরনের উপস্থিতি নিপীড়িত খ্র্রীষ্টানদের ক্ষতকে আরও জটিল করে তোলে। যারা চার্চ আক্রমণ, প্রার্থনায় বাধা, সামাজিক হেনস্তা, বা প্রশাসনিক অবহেলার ভেতর দিয়ে যাচ্ছে, তারা রাজনৈতিক মঞ্চে দাঁড়িয়ে থাকা ধর্মীয় নেতাদের দেখে প্রশ্ন করবেই—তোমরা কি সত্যিই আমাদের পক্ষে, না কি ক্ষমতার কাছে নিজেদের পক্ষে? এই প্রশ্নকে অবজ্ঞা করা যায় না। কারণ নিপীড়িত মানুষের কাছে নেতৃত্বের মানে কেবল ভাষণ নয়; নেতৃত্বের মানে সাহস, স্পষ্টতা এবং সত্যের পাশে দাঁড়ানো যাঁরা সত্যিই নিপীড়িত খ্র্রীষ্টানদের পাশে দাঁড়াতে চান, তাঁরা জনতার সামনে ছবি তুলে নয়, নীরব বিপদের সময়ে সাহস দেখিয়ে প্রমাণ দেবেন। তাঁরা ধর্মীয় স্বাধীনতা, উপাসনার অধিকার, এবং মন্ডলীর নিরাপত্তার প্রশ্নে অনর্গল, অদ্ভুত ভদ্রতা নয়—স্পষ্টতা দেখাবেন। কিন্তু মঞ্চে গিয়ে রাজনৈতিক নেতাদের সঙ্গে হাত মেলানো, তারপর “সম্প্রীতি” ও “ঐক্য”র বুলি আওড়ানো—এটা leadership নয়; এটা packaging. আর একবার packaging শুরু হলে, faith-এর জায়গায় চলে আসে branding

এখানে একটি নীতিগত কথা বলা দরকার: যদি কোনো ধর্মীয় নেতা সত্যিই সংখ্যালঘু অধিকার, উপাসনার স্বাধীনতা এবং আইনি সুরক্ষার জন্য রাজনৈতিক মঞ্চ ব্যবহার করেন, তবে তা তখনই গ্রহণযোগ্য, যখন তিনি একই সঙ্গে ক্ষমতাসীন শক্তির বিভাজনমূলক চরিত্রের সমালোচনাও করেন। কিন্তু যদি তিনি কেবল ছবি তোলেন, মঞ্চ ভাগ করেন, আর ভাষণে “ঐক্য” বলেন—তবে সেটি নৈতিক অবস্থান নয়; সেটি রাজনৈতিক আলোকচিত্র। এবং ধর্মীয় নেতৃত্বকে আলোকচিত্রে সীমাবদ্ধ করা মানে  বিশ্ব-খ্রীষ্ট মন্ডলীকে শূন্য প্রতীকে পরিণত করা বিভাজনের রাজনীতি যখন সমাজের ভিতরকার সম্পর্ককে বিষাক্ত করে তোলে, তখন ধর্মীয় নেতার কাজ হওয়া উচিত সেই বিষের বিরুদ্ধে দাঁড়ানো, না যে-শক্তি বিষ ছড়াচ্ছে তার পাশে ছবি দেওয়া। কিন্তু এই মঞ্চে দাঁড়িয়ে কিছু নেতা যেন উল্টো বার্তা দিচ্ছেন—“আমরা আছি, আমাদের ভুল বুঝবেন না, আমাদের মেনে নিন।” কেন? কারণ হয়তো তাঁরা বিশ্বাস করেন, বৃহৎ শক্তির পাশে থাকলে ছোট মানুষের নিরাপত্তা বাড়বে। কিন্তু বাস্তবে অনেক সময় তা ঘটে না। বরং এমন সম্পর্ক ধর্মীয় নেতৃত্বকে দুর্বল করে, আর সাধারণ বিশ্বাসীদের চোখে তাঁদের বিশ্বাসযোগ্যতাকেও ক্ষয় করে

সুতরাং, এখানে সহানুভূতিশীল ব্যাখ্যা যতই দেওয়া হোক, প্রশ্নগুলো থেকে মুক্তি নেই। এই উপস্থিতি কি নৈতিক সাহস, না সুবিধাবাদ? এটি কি সম্প্রদায়ের স্বার্থে কৌশল, না ক্ষমতার সঙ্গে নিরাপদ মিশে যাওয়ার চেষ্টা? এটি কি সত্যিকার প্রতিনিধিত্ব, না public recognition-এর ক্ষুধা? এবং সবচেয়ে গুরুত্বপূর্ণ, এইসব খ্র্রীষ্টান  নেতা কি সত্যিই নিজেদের মন্ডলীর সামনে জবাবদিহি করবেন, নাকি রাজনৈতিক মঞ্চের হর্ষধ্বনিতেই নিজেদের পরিচয় বৈধ বলে ধরে নেবেন? অতএব, প্রশ্নের উত্তর কঠোর হলেও স্পষ্ট: হ্যাঁ, এই উপস্থিতি সন্দেহের জন্ম দেয়। হ্যাঁ, এর মধ্যে public recognition এবং রাজনৈতিক সুবিধা-অন্বেষণের গন্ধ আছে। হ্যাঁ, BJP-শাসিত বা BJP-প্রভাবিত রাজনীতির নিরাপদ পাশে দাঁড়ানোর চেষ্টা মনে হওয়া অস্বাভাবিক নয়। এবং হ্যাঁ, এইসব ধর্মীয় নেতাদের পরিচয়, বৈধতা, প্রশিক্ষণ ও প্রতিনিধিত্ব নিয়ে নিরপেক্ষ তদন্ত হওয়া প্রয়োজন। খ্র্রীষ্টান  সমাজের উচিত আবেগ নয়, জবাবদিহি দাবি করা

যে সময় দেশ বিভাজনের রাজনীতিতে ক্লান্ত, সে সময়ে ধর্মীয় নেতৃত্বের কাজ হওয়া উচিত সত্যের পক্ষে, আক্রান্তদের পাশে এবং নৈতিক সাহসের সঙ্গে দাঁড়ানো। রাজনীতি যদি ধর্মকে ব্যবহার করে, সেটি নতুন কিছু নয়। কিন্তু ধর্মীয় নেতৃত্ব যদি নিজেই রাজনীতির সেবা করতে শুরু করে, তবে বিপদ আরও গভীর। তখন মঞ্চে থাকে ধর্মের নাম, আর ভিতরে কাজ করে ক্ষমতার হিসাব। এটাই এই ঘটনার সবচেয়ে বিস্ফোরক সত্য ক্ষমতার মঞ্চে দাঁড়িয়ে ছবি তোলা নয়। আর যদি কেউ সেটিকেই নেতৃত্ব বলে চালাতে চান, তবে তাঁদের নাম আধ্যাত্মিকতার ইতিহাসে নয়, সুবিধাবাদের তালিকায় লেখা হবে

Tuesday, June 2, 2026

Fr. C. L. MATHEW, SDB: 12 June 1943 — 30 May 2026


With deep sorrow and grateful remembrance, the Salesian Province of Kolkata announces the passing away of Fr. Chiriyankandath Mathew, SDB, who died on 30 May 2026 at 11:00 PM at Don Bosco Welfare Centre, Azimganj. He was 83 years old. A Requiem Mass was celebrated at Don Bosco Provincial House, Kolkata, on 1 June 2026 at 6:30 PM, and on 4 June 2026 at 2:00 PM his mortal remains will be laid to rest at Bandel Basilica. Kindly pray for the repose of his soul. Fr. C. L. Mathew, a beloved Salesian priest and devoted servant of God, has spent a lifetime in humble service to the Church, young people, and the wider community. His death leaves a deep void among confreres, parishioners, and the many laypeople whose lives he touched.

Born on 12 June 1943 in Wadakkancherry, Kerala, Fr. Mathew gave his life generously in the Salesian vocation. He made his First Profession on 24 April 1964 in Shillong, his Perpetual Profession on 9 April 1970 in Sonada, Darjeeling, and was ordained a priest on 22 December 1973 in Trichur, Kerala. From that time until his death, he lived as a faithful Salesian priest, educator, pastor, and companion of the young.

Life and ministry

Fr. Mathew was a Salesian through and through. Over the course of his priestly ministry he served in multiple roles: rector, principal, parish priest, assistant parish priest, bursar, confessor, and spiritual guide and a barefoot counselor.  In every ministry he exercised a practical, service-oriented pastoral style. He was widely known by many common faithful as a “helper-priest” who favored simple living and warm, accessible pastoral care. Colleagues and parishioners alike remember him as a man without malice or judgment, always ready to listen and to help.

Fr. Mathew served in a wide range of apostolates with steadfast commitment and simplicity. His assignments included Assistant Principal at DB Technical School, Park Circus (1974–1976); Assistant Principal, Don Bosco School, Park Circus (1976–1979); Assistant Principal, Don Bosco School, Liluah (1979–1982); Bursar, Don Bosco School, Azimganj (1982–1985); Principal, Don Bosco School, Bandel (1985–1989); Rector, Don Bosco, Krishnagar (1989–1995); Parish Priest, St. Albert’s Home, Monsada (1995–1998); Bursar, Don Bosco School, Liluah (1998–1999); Parish Priest, Catholic Church, Kalyani (1999–2006); Bursar and Assistant Director, DB SERI, Mirpara (2006–2007); Rector, DB SERI, Mirpara (2007–2010); Bursar, Don Bosco Welfare Centre, Azimganj (2010–2014); Assistant Director, Don Bosco Ashalayam (2014–2016); Assistant Parish Priest and Confessor, Don Bosco, Krishnagar (2016–2018); Bursar, Don Bosco Vidyaniketan, Kalyani (2018–2020); and Confessor, Don Bosco Welfare Centre, Azimganj (2020–2026)

In every mission entrusted to him, Fr. Mathew showed himself to be practical, attentive and deeply service-oriented. He carried out his responsibilities with quiet efficiency and a pastoral heart, always placing people before procedure and service before self. He was widely known as a “people’s priest” who lived simply, spoke plainly, and approached everyone with warmth and without judgment.

Care for the young

Fr. Mathew had a special love for young people, especially the boys in boarding homes and institutions under his care. He believed in accompaniment, formation through presence, and the quiet power of encouragement. Many former boarders and students remember him as patient, approachable, and steady—someone who listened, advised, and made time for them. His presence gave confidence to many who were still finding their way in life.

 Healing and practical concern

Fr. Mathew often self-medicated and, out of pastoral concern, recommended these treatments to confreres and parishioners, who came to him for help. Beyond spiritual accompaniment, Fr. Mathew took a pastoral interest in the physical well‑being of those he served. He was also known for his pragmatic interest in traditional and natural medicine. Confident in DeChane (a century‑old herbal and alternative medicine tradition founded by the DeSouza family, to which Fr. Cyril D'souza belongs, in Hyderabad in 1917, a proprietary line of formulations blending Ayurveda, Homeopathy, and modern pharmacology)  and  also Ayurveda and Homeopathy independently. Fr. Mathew often used these treatments for himself and recommended them, out of pastoral concern, to confreres, parishioners, and lay people who came to him for help. He was remembered not only as a priest but also as someone who cared for bodily well-being with the same concern he showed for spiritual growth. His approach to healing was consistent with his practical, compassionate way of tending to bodily as well as spiritual needs.His readiness to share remedies, advice, and time earned him the affectionate reputation of being a healer in both body and spirit.

In a similar spirit of service, he helped many young couples who were facing difficulties in begetting children, offering them encouragement, practical suggestions and prayerful support while accompanying them with sensitivity and compassion.

 Personality and interests

Fr. Mathew was a man of conversation, thought, and quiet pleasures. He enjoyed logical discussion and took delight in playing chess and other simple pastimes. These interests reflected a personality that was thoughtful, disciplined, and calm. He combined intellectual seriousness with humility, and his ordinary pleasures were marked by the same simplicity that characterized his priestly life.

Memories from confreres

The confreres of the Province of Kolkata have expressed deep affection and gratitude for his life and witness:

  • “Dear Fr. CL Mathew, you will be remembered by us as an Educationist and a Pastor after the heart of Don Bosco! Adieu and pray for us from heaven!” — Fr. Tomy Mathew, SDB
  • “You were very affable, concerned to sick confrers and people in general and supply medicine too taking nothing in return. You will be remembered for your kindness.” — Br. Theophil, SDB
  • “We have lost a loving and effective pastor, a concerned social worker, a physician with medicine and suggestions for good health.” — Fr. P. M. Mathew, SDB
  • “Will always cherish the memories of Bandel when you were principal and I was a practical trainee.” — Fr. Tomy Augustine, SDB
  • “I had lived with him in my community at Kalyani years ago. I have fresh memories of him since just 4 months ago I had met and chatted with him in DB Azimganj!” — Fr. E. A. Thomas, SDB
  • “Many children in Ashalayam remember him fondly. His gentle and encouraging presence is well remembered.” — Fr. C. J. George, SDB
  • “Good Lord, accept Fr. C. L. Mathew, your good servant through whom you continued your salvific works...” — Sanjla Babu, SDB
  • “I missed Fr. C L Mathew as he left for eternal reward in heaven. He was so loving and caring to me when I was in Don Bosco Azimganj. It was he who gave me medicine for kidney stone during Corona pandemic when I was suffering during those days. He helped all the poor people with medicine and counseling. May God grant him eternal rest. Amen” – Fr. Xavier Lakra SDB

 Funeral arrangements

A Requiem Mass was celebrated on 1 June 2026 at 6:30 PM in the Provincial House Chapel, Kolkata. His mortal remains will be laid to rest at Bandel Basilica on 4 June 2026 at 2:00 PM. Further details regarding memorial services, if any, will be communicated by the Province.

How to Remember and Pray

Those who wish to mourn and give thanks for Fr. Mathew’s life are encouraged to pray for the repose of his soul, to offer Masses or personal prayers in his memory, and to support one another in this time of loss. In memory of his lifelong service to youth and families, donations to Salesian educational or boarding ministries may be made in his name if desired.

Closing tribute

Fr. C. L. Mathew will be remembered as a devoted Salesian, a loving and effective pastor, a trusted confessor, a concerned social worker, and a healer in both body and spirit. He embodied the Salesian spirit in a simple, pastoral, and practical way. Beloved as a Priest-guide, a spiritual companion, and respected as an educator and social worker, he leaves behind a legacy of quiet charity and steadfast service. He served with humility, kindness, and practical wisdom, leaving behind a legacy of quiet charity and faithful priestly ministry. He will be remembered for his pastoral care, his calm presence, and his unwavering commitment to serving others without spite.

We have lost a loving and effective pastor, a concerned social worker, a physician with medicine and suggestions for good health and sound spirit. We entrust him now to God’s merciful love and commend his soul to the prayers of the Church. May the Lord reward his life of generous dedication and grant him eternal rest.

May he rest in peace.

-          Soroj Mullick SDB, 1st June 2026, Nitika DB, Kol-15 

Thursday, April 9, 2026

CORRUPT HUMAN HEART AND PILATE’S BLOOD-STAINED HANDS

                                          

“Fear of people is a trap, but whoever trusts in the Lord will be kept safe and lifted up.” (Proverbs 29:25)

Pilate’s judgment seat was far more than a political setting within the Roman Empire; it exposed a deep spiritual struggle rooted in the fallen condition of humanity. For those who follow Christ, this moment is not merely a historical encounter between a Roman governor and a Jewish King. It becomes a mirror reflecting the human tendency to resist truth while being captivated by worldly pressures and desires. In that courtroom, the tension between truth and compromise was not only external—it revealed the inner conflict that still exists within every human heart.

The Corrupt Human Heart and Pilate’s Weakness

The Bible makes it clear that after humanity’s fall, the conscience is no longer pure but influenced by sin. Pilate recognized that Jesus was innocent, yet he still chose to hand Him over to be crucified. This decision did not come from ignorance but from weakness. Though he perceived what was right, his desire to maintain authority and avoid conflict outweighed his commitment to justice.

This same struggle continues today. Many believers understand the truth of the Gospel, yet hesitate to live it out boldly in public spaces. The fear of rejection, criticism, or loss of status often silences the voice that should stand for Christ. When human approval becomes more valuable than obedience to God, it reveals how easily the heart can shift its allegiance. In such moments, society begins to take the place that belongs to God alone.

Pilate’s failure was not a lack of knowledge but a lack of courage. His example warns us that knowing the truth is not enough—what matters is whether we are willing to stand by it when it becomes costly.

God’s Sovereignty

During the trial, Pilate spoke with confidence about his authority, suggesting that he held the power to determine Jesus’ fate. Yet Jesus made it clear that all authority ultimately comes from above. This statement reminds us that no human power operates independently of God’s sovereign will.

        Pilate’s fear reveals a deeper problem: he viewed the situation through the lens of human control rather than divine authority. Although he held a position of influence, he was still governed by anxiety over public reaction and political consequences. His perspective was limited, causing him to act in a way that contradicted truth.

Believers today can fall into a similar pattern. When faced with pressure from the world, it becomes easy to forget that God remains in control of every circumstance. Fear grows when trust in God weakens. Choosing silence or compromise in such moments reflects a misplaced confidence in human power rather than in divine sovereignty. Recognizing God as the ultimate authority should produce boldness, not hesitation.

God’s Glory and Our Silence

The purpose of a Christian life is centered on honoring God. However, this calling is often overshadowed by the desire to maintain comfort and reputation. When believers avoid speaking about Christ to protect their image, they shift their focus away from God’s glory toward personal security.

The question then arises: what causes this hesitation? It is not always outright denial, but a subtle preference for acceptance over truth. Yet the life of Christ stands in sharp contrast to such reluctance. He endured humiliation, rejection, and suffering for the sake of humanity. His willingness to bear shame highlights the depth of His love and the seriousness of sin.

        In light of this, silence takes on greater meaning. Avoiding the truth in order to fit in with others suggests that social standing is being valued more highly than the sacrifice of Christ. This is not merely a personal struggle—it carries spiritual implications. To remain quiet when the truth should be spoken is to allow fear to shape one’s faith.

A life that seeks to glorify God cannot be built on selective obedience. It requires a willingness to stand firm, even when doing so invites discomfort or opposition.

The Basin of Washed Hands

One of the most striking actions in Pilate’s story is his attempt to distance himself from responsibility by washing his hands. This symbolic gesture was meant to declare innocence, yet it could not remove the reality of his decision. External actions, no matter how meaningful they appear, cannot cleanse the inner condition of the heart.

This moment speaks powerfully to modern life. It is easy to justify silence or compromise with seemingly reasonable explanations. Many may convince themselves that avoiding conflict is wise, or that private belief is sufficient without public expression. These thoughts can act as a form of self-justification, much like Pilate’s attempt to escape accountability.

However, truth does not allow for neutrality. Choosing not to stand for what is right is, in itself, a decision. When silence leads to the neglect of truth, it indirectly supports falsehood. The idea that one can remain uninvolved in matters of truth is an illusion.

Only God’s grace has the power to transform the heart. It is not outward behavior but inward renewal that brings true change. Ignoring this grace while clinging to fear places a person in a spiritually dangerous position. Pilate’s actions serve as a reminder that responsibility cannot be avoided through symbolic gestures or convenient reasoning.

A Call to Repentance

Despite the seriousness of this reflection, the message of the Gospel is not without hope. Human weakness, though real, is not beyond redemption. The story of the apostle Peter illustrates this truth clearly. In a moment of fear, he denied Christ, yet his failure was not the end. Through grace, he was restored and later became a courageous witness.

This transformation offers encouragement to all believers. Fear, hesitation, and compromise do not have to define one’s spiritual journey. There is always an opportunity to return to God with honesty and humility. Acknowledging weakness is the first step toward receiving the strength that comes from Him.

Faith requires more than internal belief—it calls for a life that reflects trust in God openly. While the world may respond with rejection or ridicule, such responses do not change the reality of God’s presence. The One who overcame death remains with His people, providing the courage needed to stand firm.

Instead of following Pilate’s example of avoidance, believers are called to pursue inner renewal. True cleansing comes through Christ, not through outward gestures or human reasoning. Living faithfully means choosing truth over comfort and conviction over convenience.

In the end, every individual must decide where they stand. There is no middle ground between truth and compromise. The challenge is not simply to recognize what is right, but to live it out with integrity.

May our lives reflect not hesitation, but conviction. May they reveal not fear, but faith. And may the world see, not the weakness of Pilate within us, but the transforming power and glory of Christ.

 

 

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