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Monday, June 9, 2025

From Division to Discipleship: The Spirit’s Call in a Troubled World


The World We See and the Hope We Hold

The glorious nearly 100 days of Easter season is over—a sacred time that reminds us of the most transformative truth in human history: Christ has conquered sin and death. Yet, in the present ordinary time, when we look at the world around us, we are struck not by triumph but by turmoil. News headlines speak of division, hatred, and conflict. We see it globally and nationally, but also in our own communities, in our families, and, heartbreakingly, even within the Church.

But there is hope.

This recent Pentecost feast, proclaims a world made new through the Spiritus Sanctus—the holy breath of love between the Father and the Son– the love that exists between the two. This Spirit doesn’t just inspire; it sanctifies, unifies, and sends us out. It is the same Spirit that empowered the apostles in the Upper Room and sent them into the world to proclaim the Good News.

The same Spirit that Sends Us Forth

The Church was never meant to remain cloistered. From the very beginning, it has been propelled outward with a divine urgency. The Holy Spirit is not passive; it moves with “centrifugal energy,” drawing us out of comfort and into mission.

Jesus’ ministry was the meeting of heaven and earth. His life and Resurrection shattered the illusion that darkness has the final word. His wounds remind us of our sin; his peace assures us of our salvation. And through Pentecost, we are filled with the very Spirit that raised him from the dead.

As disciples, we are summoned—not by our own plans but by God’s. True evangelization doesn’t stem from strategy, but from surrender; from Spirit-led inspiration and not from motivated human suggestion. The question is no longer “Will I go?” but rather, “Where is the Spirit sending me?” What does the Spirit prompt me to do next?

Evangelizing a Wounded Culture

We believe that to evangelize a culture, you must first love it. Cardinal George wisely noted, “You can’t evangelize a culture you don’t love.” This mission—to propose the true, the good, and the beautiful in a spirit of unity—is what drives the present-day media outreach, both old and new.

In a world deeply fractured, this love, born of the Spirit, is the only force strong enough to reconcile. And reconciliation, as the Latin root reminds us, is about intimacy—being brought “face to face” with the other. That is the power of Christ: to restore, to heal, and to reconcile humanity with God and one another.

Your Role in the Mission

As we have reflected on the Solemnity of Pentecost and today the Memorial of Mary, Mother of the Church, we are reminded that the Spirit and the Blessed Mother are not relics of history—they are agents of the present. Just as they once brought Christ into the world, they now seek to bring Christ to birth in our hearts, our homes, and our culture.

All are invited to this Spirit-led mission. Our reciprocal support helps the Church (People of God) continue proclaiming Christ across platforms and continents, reaching those who might never step inside a church. We have received the Holy Spirit. We are encouraged to share the ‘Spirit force’ generously so that more hearts may be kindled with the fire of divine love.

Go Forth, United in the Spirit

Jesus offers us both a reminder and a mission: “Peace be with you.” This is not a peace the world can manufacture. It is a divine peace—Shalom—that flows from the heart of God. The world may be broken, but the Church is alive. And the Spirit is still moving.

Let us go forth, not with fear but with fire. Let us follow Christ, deny ourselves, take up our crosses, and bring God’s peace to every corner of the earth.

Together, let’s “make disciples of all nations” (Matt. 28:19) and “renew the face of the earth”– our common home.

Wednesday, July 24, 2024

WHO REALLY IS JESUS OF NAZARETH ?

 


There is a question at the heart of history, a question that no one can avoid: "Who really is Jesus of Nazareth?" It is vital to know this, not so much for history, but for each of us. It is Jesus himself who asks every human being: "Who am I for you?"

It is he himself who asks this strange question directly to his friends and, indirectly, to us: "Who am I?" We cannot avoid answering, if we are endowed with a normal mind, because many surprising or inexplicable facts prevent us from doing so:

Eight billion people, that is, practically the entire planet, use his year of birth as a reference for their calendars, even if they have never heard of him. All contracts concluded, all legal acts and all publications in the world use this reference. This is evidently an extraordinary fact, considering the numerous attempts, all of which failed, to delete this time reference. The French revolutionaries tried to create a new calendar that had 1793 as year one, but the attempt, limited to France alone, lasted only twelve years. Jews, Muslims and Chinese also have their own calendar, but its use, limited to the spheres of influence of individual countries, still goes hand in hand with that of the Christian calendar. The date of Jesus' birth thus ends up representing an absolute and universal meridian, an "equator of time" that divides the history of humanity in two, with a "before" and an "after Christ".

More than 20 thousand books have been written about him in the last century alone, and hundreds of new ones are published every year! For its part, the Bible is the most widely circulated and most translated book in the world in all languages. To date, 2.5 billion people, or a third of humanity, say they believe in the divinity of Jesus.

Logically, Jesus should have remained an illustrious unknown! His is a hidden life: The son of a single mother, he was born in an obscure village; he fled to Egypt with his parents; returned and  grew up in stature, knowledge and skills in another village – Nazareth; there he worked as a carpenter until he was thirty. He lived a simple life. Then, for three years, he toured his land preaching. He never wrote a book. He never held public office. He never had a family or a home. He did not attend university. He did not stray more than three hundred kilometers from where he was born. He didn't do any of those things that are usually associated with success. He had no credentials other than himself. This Son Servant chosen by God was anointed by the Spirit and baptized at the Jordan; fasted for forty days and was tempted towards worldly powers but did not succumb to it. He continued his mission to help and heal, and proclaim justice to the Gentiles. He called illiterate fishermen as his disciples, ministered in Galilee.  As a prophetic light to all the nations, with the help of his apostles he accomplished his mission without fanfare. He was only thirty-three years old when public opinion turned against him. His own people plotted against the ‘Suffering Servant’, who similarly plotted against the poor and conspired against the innocent. Matthew writes, “The Pharisees went out and took counsel against Jesus to put him to death.”  Jesus withdrew from confronting his enemies. But one day he rode to Jerusalem on a donkey; was arrested in the garden. His friends fled. He was sold out to his enemies and underwent a trial that was a farce. He was nailed to a cross, between two thieves. While he was dying, his executioners played dice on his clothes, which were the only property he had on earth. He was totally rejected by his own people, but he was patient, meek and humble. He did not engage in frenetic activism and aggressive confrontation (cf. Mitch and Sri, The Gospel of Matthew, 167); he did not wield power, prestige and pride. He was crucified outside the city at Golgotha with criminals. When he died he was placed in a tomb made available by a friend moved by pity. Two days later, that tomb was empty.

Twenty centuries have passed and today he is the central figure in the history of humanity.   The majority in the world accepted his Gospel. Not even the armies that marched, the fleets that sailed, the parliaments that met, the kings that reigned, the thinkers and scientists put together, changed the life of man on earth as much as this one hidden life. Each of us is capable of seeing it for ourselves: the destiny of Jesus of Nazareth is something beyond any effort of imagination.

The Unsustainable Responses

Indeed, this question "But you, who do you say that I am?" (Mt 16:15), which at first glance seems simple and harmless, in reality poses a problem of implacable logic, because the possible answers are very few and we possess enough information to exclude almost all of them. These are the answers that have been given in the course of history and which are, moreover, logically, the only possible answers to the question: "Who can Jesus be?" (they tried them all!):

Jesus never existed; he is a myth created later. The historical reality of Jesus is well documented and quietly ascertained by historical and archaeological evidence.

He was just a great sage, a character who was all in all quiet and profoundly human, he is the easy choice of mediocre and superficial people. Writer C.S. Lewis states very clearly: "You have to make a choice. Either this man was, and is, the Son of God or he was a madman, or even worse. We can then throw ourselves at his feet and call him Lord and God, or silence him because we think he is a fool or kill him; but please, let's not bring up nonsense complacent that he is only a great moral teacher. This option was not granted to us."

He was a visionary fanatic. In reality, no one, not even his enemies and the great accusers at his trial, describe him in this way.

He was an impostor who failed. An accusation more senseless than useless. But it is ancient. Let's summarize his main points: taking advantage of the feverish wait for the Messiah, a cunning schemer, after learning the art of magic in Egypt, declares that he is the long-awaited Messiah. This character seduces the crowds with miracles and tries to drag them into a revolt in order to seize power, but the initiative is dangerous enough to frighten the authorities. The impostor is then arrested, convicted, executed, and buried. His disciples, who had dispersed at the time of his death, gather in secret and within a few hours decide to improvise a daring sequel to this adventure. They steal the body of Jesus, bury it in a secret place and, showing the empty tomb, stage a sensational hoax by proclaiming that he has risen from the dead.

Why, at that point, did the high priests not have Jesus' body searched? It would have been simple! Unmasking, evidence in hand, this absurd scam of the resurrection invented by the followers of Jesus, offered them an ideal opportunity to silence them once and for all! They had the possibility, simply by finding the body, to put an end to this far-fetched and dangerous staging. But no, officially no investigation is instituted!

Do we really want to believe that this handful of frightened disciples could have agreed in a few hours to set up the greatest deception in history? To pass off the one who in the end had revealed himself to be only an impostor, an ordinary mortal, for the God who came down to earth, stealing his body, recovering it and then proclaiming his Resurrection! What, then, would have been the purpose of this daring staging? Why leave to go to the ends of the world, each alone, presumably without a wife, without children, without money, to tell the story of a resurrected Messiah to pagans who did not even know the term, let alone the meaning of the concept of Messiah?

He was a prophet. Because of the violent criticism he had to suffer and his death on the cross, Jesus could therefore be fully included in this long list of prophets. His exhortations to conversion also have a prophetic tenor. Muslims, on the other hand, currently about 1.5 billion people, also think that Jesus was a prophet, as reported in the Qur'an.

However, this thesis inevitably clashes with insurmountable improbabilities.

First of all, a prophet who by nature knows the future would not have surrounded himself with a gang of swindlers and criminals, who would one day have unearthed him and buried him elsewhere and then passed him off as the God made man. Finally, a prophet, not being God, certainly cannot be resurrected. Consequently, everything we have said about the improbability of the operation staged by the disciples, with the disappearance of the body, the false resurrection and all that follows, also applies in this case.

He is the Messiah and an extraordinary man, but only a man. The thesis according to which "Jesus is the Messiah, but he is only a man", after his death becomes absolutely untenable, because by definition the Messiah is a king destined by God to reign over Israel. But, to the great disappointment of those who hoped that Christ would rebuild the temporal power of Israel, Jesus dies on the cross, abandoned by all. If he is considered a Messiah, he cannot therefore be a purely human Messiah.

The Only Possibility: Jesus Is God Made Man

Once the challenge is taken up, everything begins to become clearer, and doubts and contradictions disappear. To begin with, this thesis makes clear the meaning of words that had previously seemed puzzling or even upsetting.

If Jesus is the Son of God, in fact, then he has always been so and can well say:

 "Before Abraham was, I am" (Jn 8:58).

"Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will not pass away" (Mt 24:35).

Jesus' divinity makes him omnipotent, even over death and sin, and justifies the words:

"Your sins are forgiven" (Mt 9:5).

"I am the resurrection and the life" (Jn 11:25).

"All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me" (Mt 28:18)

By means of the Eucharist he can finally give his body as food, in the form of consecrated bread:

"I am the bread that has come down from heaven" (Jn 6:41).

On the part of anyone else, these words would have been the sign of an immeasurable pride, of a scandalous presumption, of a dangerous delirium of omnipotence. But in the mouth of the Son of God, of the Messiah, they take on a completely new meaning, in a logic that goes beyond our usual categories.

The Radical Change in the Behavior of the Apostles becomes Understandable

At this point, the metamorphosis of the apostles is also perfectly explained: cowards who had been able to deny Jesus and shut themselves up in the Upper Room with a double mandate, suddenly reveal themselves, as if by miracle, full of audacity and strength, determined to preach the proclamation of the Good News to the crowds. As if by a miracle, indeed, since this transformation is the result of their encounter with the risen Jesus. They have seen him and touched him, and now nothing can stop them: they have understood that death is only a passage towards resurrection, and that persecutions are a necessary testimony of faith, as well as a participation in the sufferings of Christ. Their attitude is therefore perfectly logical.

The Success of the Apostles does not have an exclusively Human Origin

Far from being satisfied with words, the apostles live their faith totally, a faith that is dearer to them than life.

Blaise Pascal writes: "I believe in witnesses who are killed." It is the ultimate argument, the one that convinced the masses at the beginning of Christianity. Thus, the fate of the persecuted Christians under Nero did not interrupt the flow of conversions. On the contrary, the witness of the martyrs was stronger than the persecutions.

Thus, the latter hypothesis is definitely the only possible answer to the question "Who is Jesus of Nazareth?".

Now it's up to Us to Respond

A little story can help us understand what we need to do.

A powerful ruler traveled through the desert followed by a long caravan carrying his fabulous treasure of gold and precious stones.

 Halfway along the way, exhausted by the fiery glare of the sand, a camel in the caravan collapsed gasping and never got up.

The chest he was carrying rolled down the sides of the dune, broke apart and scattered all its contents, pearls and precious stones, in the sand.

The prince did not want to slow down, also because he had no other chests and the camels were already overloaded. With a gesture between displeasure and generous, he invited his pages and squires to keep the precious stones they managed to collect and take with them.

While the young men eagerly threw themselves on the rich booty, and searched the sand frantically, the prince continued his journey into the desert.

However, he noticed that someone continued to walk behind him. He turned and saw that it was one of his pages, following him panting and sweating.

"And you," asked the prince, "didn't you stop to pick up anything?"

The young man gave an answer full of dignity and pride: "I follow my king."

Many of Jesus' disciples backed down and no longer went with him. Then Jesus asked the Twelve, "Do you also want to go away?" Simon Peter answered him, "Lord, to whom shall we go? You alone have words that give eternal life. And now we believe and know that you are the one God sent." (Jn 6:66-69)

 

(Translated and adapted by Soroj Mullick SDB. Cf. Carmen Laval, La Domanda, in Bolletino Salesiano,  June 2024, pp.10-13.)


Sunday, February 26, 2023

FIRST SUNDAY OF LENT CELEBRATION AT BANDEL SHRINE

 

 


Popular Devotion VS Sentimental Pietism

         Hundreds of families irrespective of creed, caste and colour, fulfilled their pilgrim-promises to Our Lady of Happy Voyage at Bandel Basilica, a Shrine dedicated to the Queen of the Holy Rosary, to pray that their families encounter a similar rediscovery of our Lord who encounters his Mother, on his way to the Calvary. Devout faithful flocked in the Church for the morning Masses in Hindi, Bengali and English, with the observance of First Sunday of Lent (26th Feb 2023), listening to the Lenten Message of the Pope during the homily.  Some families waited three years to come here to pray to God through the intercession of Mary.

        On this first Sunday of Lent, many families visit this shrine, especially for the ‘community expression’ (religiosity) of the Way of the Cross, with the memorable event of Jesus meeting his Mother while carrying the Cross to Calvary – an emotional meeting of the devotees with the suffering Son, Jesus. Such devotional religiosity revealed a ‘spirituality of the senses’, as part of ‘bhakti’, practices and popular piety.  However much of its moment of meeting missed out this year, this ritualistic practice has many personal and family-related expectations tied to it, which they believe to be realized by the grace of Jesus through Mary.  This Annual observance of the meeting of Jesus with his Mother at the annual Lenten Way of the Cross held at 2 p.m., started many years ago, is a special moment of grace for many. The atmosphere with such devotional-ritual practices, under the supervision of nearly 150 volunteers from the local parish, popularized the people’s ‘pilgrimage’ to Bandel. Many such annual pilgrimages were made by the devoted families in the subsequent years with lots of faith and devotion.

       Besides, many devotees believe that the miraculous statue of Our Lady of Bandel at this sacred location motivates them to come to this religious shrine to thank her for health-healing and intercessions. The pilgrimage by all sort of people is more than a devotional moment. People from all walks of life stood in the hot afternoon sun and felt one with Jesus making his way to Calvary, ready to walk the extra mile along with the rest of the pilgrims, listening to the short Marian reflections given by Fr. Moloy D'Costa of Kolkata Archdiocese and Fr Sebastian SJ, in Bengali and English alternatively, and praying. These pilgrims return with graces, blessings, peace and fulfilment, with the assurance that God, through the intercession of Mary, is going to take care of them all.  

       The “pilgrim families” coming mostly from the various surrounding parishes — many of them from Basanti, Khari, Morapai, Canning, etc. of Baruipur diocese,— thank God through Mary for shaping them as Christian families. Certainly, they go back, promising to imitate the Holy Family, in being families on pilgrimage along with neighbours and companions on the way. They come with a reason and purpose with a social centering. Literally, they run to touch Jesus (statue) for healing of self or their children. They’re not just a random group of families, wandering around in the campus and inside the Church. Though, some of their social behaviours expressed, do not often fit the expectations from a pilgrim people! Noisy movement, distracted devotions, smartphone-photo/video mania, are just a few of the major distractions that can strain families from being fulfilled through such pilgrimage. Nevertheless, coming together of parents, children and relatives, effect positively their relationship with each other and influence even their understanding of faith in God through simple devotional practices. The pilgrimage made as a family often makes them feel that life and relationships fall short of God’s expectation. People go back with the ideal worth working for, and struggling towards a life of peace and prosperity. Sometimes reconciliation and healing do happen here. Persons change, circumstances improve, and they work their way through difficult times with prayer through Mary.

        The Portuguese Church established in 1599 by the Augustinian monks has been under the care of the Salesians of Don Bosco since 1928. Today there are more than 4,000 Catholics in the parish with two communities of Salesians and four women religious congregations catering to the education of some 5,000 students both with English and Bengali medium education.

         An afterthought: As rational and irrational creatures we express our beliefs, going beyond the basics to meet personal need!  Faithful tries to ‘transmit’ faith through intercessions.  As tools they can only help experience religious expressions. Faith is a personal adherence and witness to the person of Jesus - a pure worship with the hope of no reward. What is needed most is being with God, and not chasing after some ‘miracles’.

       Within a belief system, we tend to speak in emotive sentimental terms. Contrary to popular devotions as expressed on this First Sunday of Lent here at Bandel, hyper-emotional “popular pietism” (sentimental) of many can become superstitious practices. Faith cannot be ‘transmitted’, but witnessed. Some of the religious expressions are designed to disguise psychological and physical realities. Such shadowed expressions are promoted at the cost of conscience. It reduces Catholic faith and morals to pious sentimentalities.

       Using two central Christian faith-events, – the Cross and Resurrection – it is easy to manipulate human emotions. An emotional “faith” expressed out of sentimental pietism, can be extremely dangerous. It affects one’s moral and religious growth. Sacrificial love on the Cross and the joy of resurrection are a balance of devotional and intellectual life by witnessing to Jesus Christ who died on the Cross and rose.  Unbridled human emotion, without critical questioning, begins to drive the faithful away from the creation – the real world. God does not want that people trample upon God’s truth in the name of ritual worship! Besides, detached from context, culture and reason, the sentimental faith-expressions becomes ill-educated, arrogant, and vicious. Certainly, we were reminded by the announcer of the war between Russia and Ukraine, the natural and earthquake calamities in Syria and Turkey, the fight between Israel and Palestine, the persecution of the minorities, etc.   God says, ‘learn to do good, be just, redress the wrong and defend the poor’ (cf. Is 1:10-17). Jesus speaks straight, “whoever does not take up his cross and follow after me is not worthy of me” (Mt 10:38).

      There are Christians by conviction, devout Christians and Christians by instinct, wherein religion, culture, customs, rituals and identity are all rolled into one. A Christian priest with the clerical dress donned, a Catholic nun in her garb, a Marian Shrine with lots of rituals, rites, folklore and other external devotional practices keep people’s passions festering. They are a part of “collective memory” of Christian belief system. Besides, the ingrained social and cultural customs of the community sustain the traditional sensibilities of people of the place. Till date, as human beings, we fail when we are not ready to eat, drink, worship and pray through popular devotions with one who is religiously different from us and one who is in need. The convivial moments through a devotional practices especially in this public Marian pilgrim centre, as on First Sunday of Lent, are occasions of building up the harmony needed to live in unity. 

 

 

Thursday, March 18, 2021

The inseparable Josef and Miriam

 

Sometimes one meets a husband and wife whose love for each other is so real that other people do not see them so much as two individuals, but, rather, as one unit.  It’s almost as if they have been fused together by their years of sharing with and caring for each other.  To imagine one without the other is impossible.

Mr. Josef David and Mrs. Miriam David were a couple just like that.  They were of medium height, good looking and inseparable. Every day they would come to the village synagogue to pray, and would stand chatting to their friends.  They would go back home and Mr. Josef would work in his carpentry.  He would also look after the garden of the widow who lived next door.  I think he was actually older than Mrs. Miriam, but Mr. Josef was determined that she wasn’t going to tire herself out. A perfect gentleman, he hated the thought of a woman doing hard labour!

Mr. and Mrs. Davids loved each other so much that sometimes I wondered how they even managed to be apart when he had had to go to work in various distant villages and towns.  At least now that he had retired, they could be together all the time.

Then came the day when Mr. Josef died.  His wife still came to village synagogue every day.  She tried to help the widow, next door,  did the gardening for her as Mr. Josef once did.  She spoke about her late husband as though he had been the most loveable man who had ever lived.  Mr. Josef had been perfect in every way, according to his wife. 

When once the widow’s son, would come home to visit his mother, Mrs. Miriam would use his arrival as an excuse to visit him along with her son Jeshua.  One evening she came to the house with a big plastic bag that she put on the floor beside the boy.  One by one she pulled out photographs of his husband and showed them to him.  Some of the pictures had been treasured for years.  After the photos came the fret works that Mr. Josef had done during the many years of their married life.  As she showed off his husband’s handiwork, it was clear that Mrs. Miriam was finding comfort in being able to talk about the man she had loved so much.  There were moments when she was finding it hard not to cry.  It was a very sacred evening as far as this widow’s son was concerned.  For a short time he had been allowed to enter into a marriage that had truly been made in Heaven.

When two people love each other very much and one dies, it can feel as though the surviving partner has lost everything.  Mrs. Miriam’s whole world was centred in her husband.  He was his sun and his stars.  When he died, life could never again be the same.  If she hadn’t had her strong faith Mrs. Miriam’s world would have come to an end.

As Christians we are very blessed in knowing that death is not the end of everything.  The only thing that makes sense of death is our belief in the Resurrection, our belief that death is only a transition.  We believe that, beyond the grave is life.  Death is not the end.  When someone dies, that person is only a thought away, can never move further away from us than deep inside our hearts. Today, 19 March, as we remember St. Joseph we pray for all those whom we love and who have died.  We pray that God will give them the fullness of life and peace with him.  Today let us also pray for those husbands and wives who have been separated by death, that God will give comfort and strength to the one left behind.

 

 

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