BELIEVERS, FREE TO SERVE: SALESIAN FAMILY DAY LIGHTS UP BOSCO SPIRIT AT KOLKATA

Walking Together as One Family

The Salesian Family of South Bengal converged on Nitika Don Bosco, Kolkata, on this Centenary Year of the presence of Kolkata Province, on 23 January 2026 for Salesian Family Day, drawing over 112 participants from across the South Bengal region. The date carried a uniquely Bengali resonance: the birth anniversary of Netaji Subhas Chandra Bose and Saraswati Puja, a day when Bengal honours courage, learning, and youthful energy. Against this backdrop, the Family gathered to reflect on Strenna 2026, “Do whatever he tells you – Believers, free to serve,” proposed by the Rector Major, Fr Fabio Attard. The day followed a simple yet meaningful timetable that helped participants pray, reflect and plan together as one family. Registration began at 9.00 am, followed at 9.45 am by the main input session on the Strenna 2026, which set the tone for the rest of the programme. The day underlined that the Strenna is not a text for SDBs alone but a shared spiritual roadmap for every group of the Salesian Family worldwide.

From the outset, the tone was one of joy and gratitude: joy at being together after another intense year of youth ministry, and gratitude for 150 years of the Salesian Cooperators’ vocation in the Church. Participants included SDBs, FMAs, MSMHCs, SMI Sisters, Salesian Cooperators, ADMA members and lay collaborators, all united by Don Bosco’s charism and by a common desire to listen to the Lord’s voice in today’s youth realities.

Listening to Mary’s Invitation at Cana

The heart of the day was a reflective presentation on Strenna 2026, anchored in the Gospel scene of the wedding at Cana (Jn 2:1–11). Mary’s words, “Do whatever he tells you,” were presented not as a vague exhortation to obedience, but as a pedagogy of listening that calls believers to active, discerning faith. The Rector Major’s commentary on the Strenna stresses that genuine freedom is born of faith in Christ and finds expression in concrete service; believers are “free to serve” because their hearts are already rooted in the One who calls and sends them.

Using the official Strenna logo and posters, the speaker highlighted how the Cana servants become a model for today’s Salesian Family: they recognise the crisis (“they have no wine”), listen to Mary, trust Jesus’ apparently unreasonable request, and act with generous faith. Participants were invited to see themselves in those servants, especially in a Bengal context where “no wine” often means young people deprived of opportunities, direction, and hope.

A Journey of Discernment: Recognise, Interpret, Choose, Act

The day unfolded as a shared journey through four classic stages of Christian discernment that structure the Strenna: recognise, interpret, choose, act.

·      Recognise (SEE): Groups first “read” the world of the young in South Bengal. They named youth as creative, outspoken, digital natives, ambitious, socially aware, and passionate for change—yet also vulnerable to isolation, digital addiction, and value-confusion. Listening with empathy was stressed as the first act of service: an “attentive gaze on reality” that sees in the lives of young people a kind of “treasure chest” where God is already at work.

·      Interpret (LISTEN): Participants were then invited to ask what God is saying through these realities. The call emerged to cultivate spiritual intelligence—seeing youth issues like migration, unemployment, and ecological anxiety through the eyes of Christ, not through fear or nostalgia. Silence, prayer, and community listening were presented as essential to hearing the Lord’s voice amid the noise of social media and polarised politics.

·      CHOOSE: In the third movement, the focus shifted to freedom. The Strenna warns against self‑referential faith and fear-driven decisions; instead, it proposes counter-cultural choices rooted in the Gospel rather than in today’s dominant ideologies of power, possession and pleasure. Participants asked themselves what concrete decisions they must now make as individuals and as groups to be truly “believers, free to serve” and not mere functionaries.

·      ACT: Finally, the Family reflected on actions. Faith that does not translate into service, it was said, remains sterile. The Strenna pushes every group to embrace risk and apostolic daring—trusting in divine Providence and moving beyond safe, event-based ministry into sustained accompaniment of the young, especially those most at risk.

 Youth at the Centre: From Ideas to Concrete Commitments

From 11 am, the Salesian Family members broke into smaller groups to discuss the theme and, at 11.30 am, presented their insights and concrete proposals in plenary. The spiritual heart of the day was the Holy Mass at 12.15 pm, during which the fruits of the morning’s reflection were offered at the altar. Group discussions brought the Strenna down to earth in very practical ways. In response to the question, “What do we see in the young today?”, participants spoke of youth as tech-savvy, expressive, global in outlook, independent and eager for authentic role models. The second question—“What is God telling us as Salesian Family members?”—drew out a strong consensus: to be more present, more approachable, more patient; to listen before judging; to understand the digital world; and to offer guidance that respects freedom while opening paths to God.

When asked, “What have I decided to do to reach out to the young?”, individuals committed themselves to being more available, less controlling, and more willing to walk with youth in their concrete struggles—through mentoring, counselling, peer-group facilitation, and a friendly presence rather than a distant authority. At the community level, a rich list of proposals emerged: talent expos, retreats and value-based events; youth leadership camps; counselling and career guidance centres; skills training hubs; platforms for youth expression; and regular family visits to strengthen the triangle of youth–family–Salesian presence. All of this was seen as the Salesian Family “walking in synodality” with young people, sharing responsibility and decision-making with them rather than simply programming for them.

Mary’s Gaze and Don Bosco’s Dream

Throughout the day, Mary’s attitude at Cana served as a guiding icon. She is not a neutral guest; she notices the lack, listens to the unspoken pain, and quietly creates a path for the miracle by involving the servants. Participants were reminded that Salesian presence must be similarly proactive: seeing the hidden “no wine” of today’s adolescents and young adults and helping them turn the “water” of their daily efforts into the “wine” of a meaningful, faith-filled life.

The celebration closed with a renewed sense that the Salesian Family in South Bengal is called to be an “amphora” of five essential attitudes in 2026: living faith, educational passion, fraternal communion, prophetic courage, and co‑responsibility. In the light of the 150th anniversary of the Salesian Cooperators, everyone was invited to “Give thanks, rethink, relaunch” their vocation, so that Don Bosco’s dream may continue to grow in Bengal’s schools, parishes, youth centres and streets. As one participant summed up the day: “Alone we become irrelevant; together, as a Salesian Family, we are free to serve—and to make the wine of joy flow again in the lives of the young.”

The day’s SF gathering reached its climax with the Concelebrated Eucharistic Celebration thereafter, where the Strenna’s  core ideas were highlighted in the light of the Gospel of the Day in Spirit and Faith. A fraternal lunch at 1.30 pm crowned the celebration before participants began their homeward journey, enriched and encouraged to “do whatever He tells you” in their own local contexts.