Sunday, January 11, 2026

DO YOU WILL TO LIVE A WILLED LIFE ?


The will to live a willed life is, at its deepest level, the desire to let God’s will and our free will meet in a loving, creative partnership. A new year is a privileged moment to renew this partnership and to choose—not just to have a life, but to will a life that is consciously shaped by Christ, for others, and for the Kingdom. ​

 1. From vague wishes to a “willed life”

Every January, people around the world make resolutions: to get fit, to reduce stress, to be more organised or to “spend more time with family.” These are good desires, but often they remain vague wishes. In Catholic spiritual tradition, the invitation goes further: to allow the Holy Spirit to convert our freedom, so that our plans and desires become a response to God’s loving call.

Scripture reminds us that “it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure” (Phil 2:13). Our will is not erased by grace; it is healed, strengthened, and invited to cooperate. A “willed life” is therefore not stoic self‑discipline or sheer will‑power. It is the decision to bring every dimension of life—spiritual, human, emotional, intellectual, ecological—under the gentle lordship of Christ, and to keep choosing this day after day.

A new year is like a blank page. We can drift through it on autopilot, driven by habit and external pressures, or we can write it deliberately with God, allowing his Word to become the deep script of our choices. This is why many Catholic writers encourage concrete spiritual goals at the start of the year: daily prayer, frequent sacraments, acts of mercy, and intentional growth in virtue.​

2. Will, love, and the call to holiness

At first glance, “drawing up a will” or “making a life plan” may sound legalistic or self‑centred, but in the Christian vision it is an act of love. It is a way of asking: How can my time, energy, relationships, gifts and even my material resources serve God’s Kingdom more clearly—now and in the future?​

Jesus tells the rich young man: “Go, sell what you have, and give to the poor… then come, follow me” (Mk 10:21). The heart of the invitation is not loss but freedom: freedom from possessions that possess us, and freedom for a relationship that gives life. In a similar way, a willed life is a freely embraced pattern of commitments—spiritual, relational, apostolic and ecological—that expresses our deepest love for God and neighbour.

In practice, this means deliberately aligning our “small wills” (daily choices) with the “big Will” of God, who desires that “all be saved and come to the knowledge of the truth” (1 Tim 2:4). It also means recognising that our decisions have ripple effects: on our families, communities, the Church, and the wider creation. A consciously willed life becomes a channel through which God’s providence and mercy can flow to others.

3. Seeing God’s call in the concrete: one example

The life’s personal spiritual plan you outline—rooted in one’s self  identity, mystical consciousness and apostolic or human service—is a concrete illustration of what it means to will a life in Christ. It is not abstract piety but a carefully discerned response to God’s call at a particular time and place.

Here, God’s call is heard in the quiet rhythm of our home and surrounding, or the workplace: prayer, work at home, work at office, reading, studying, writing, and supportive service. It is deepened by the Church’s ecological magisterium—especially Laudato Si’—and by the Christo‑cosmic vision of Teilhard de Chardin’s “Mass of the World,” where all creation is seen as drawn into the Eucharistic offering of Christ.​

Three elements stand out in this plan:

  • Mystical union and eco‑mysticism: God is encountered not only in the chapel but in the whole cosmos; creation becomes a theophany and a partner in praise. ​
  • The Non-compulsive Way: faith, reason, devotion and loving gentleness shape the style of presence among others, building relationships of trust and joy. ​
  • Integration of dimensions: human self‑care, community life, spiritual depth, intellectual labour, consecrated mission, emotional maturity and ecological responsibility are all woven into a single fabric.

This is what a “willed life” looks like: not a rigid schedule, but a dynamic pattern where each area supports the others, oriented toward a clear Gospel vision—here, a “universal eco‑mysticism” that sees all reality in Christ.

4. Free will and life‑planning in Christian perspective

Modern psychology confirms that people who set specific, meaningful goals and review them regularly are more likely to grow in resilience, wellbeing and purpose. Yet Christian tradition adds something crucial: discernment. The question is not only “What do I want?” but “What is God inviting me to desire?”

Saint Ignatius of Loyola teaches that the human person is created “to praise, reverence and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul,” and that other things are to be used insofar as they help toward this end. The will is free, but it becomes truly free when it chooses according to this fundamental orientation.

A good spiritual life plan therefore:

  1. Begins with God’s initiative – recognising how God has already been at work in our history, gifts, wounds and desires.
  2. Names the “actual situation” honestly – strengths and weaknesses, opportunities and limits.
  3. Sets concrete lines of action – small, realistic steps that can be evaluated and adjusted.
  4. Integrates the whole person – body and soul, emotions and intellect, personal and communal, human and ecological.
  5. Includes regular examen and review – to see where the Spirit is confirming, challenging or redirecting.

From a theological angle, this honours both divine providence and human freedom: God respects our agency, and we in turn trust his wisdom more than our own impulses.

5. Lines of action: willing a willed life in 2026

Drawing from tried plan and wider ecclesial insights, here are concrete lines of action for anyone wanting to “will a willed life” this year—adaptable to different vocations.

1) Personal spiritual plan of life

  • Set a daily rhythm of prayer: a fixed time for morning offering, Scripture meditation (lectio divina), and an evening examen in which you review the day with Christ.
  • Choose one key Eucharistic or biblical text—for instance, 2 Cor 5:17 (new creation) or the Canticle of Creation—and let it accompany you as a leitmotif through the year.
  • Plan regular silent adoration or nature‑based contemplation, allowing God to re‑shape your inner gaze toward a more contemplative, eco‑sensitive mysticism.

2) Human and emotional wellbeing

  • Protect basic self‑care: regular sleep, wholesome food, moderate exercise; these are not selfish luxuries but stewardship of the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Cor 6:19).
  • Use tools like a gratitude and reflection journal to notice patterns of stress, joy, consolation and desolation, and to bring them into spiritual direction.
  • Practise emotional honesty in community: name your limits, ask for help, and cultivate humour and forgiveness.

3) Family/Community and relationships

  • Intentionally show up: for common communiry/family prayer, meals, recreation and meetings, not only physically but with listening and availability.
  • Create spaces for shared reading and reflection on Laudato Si’, Christian spirituality, or other texts that connect faith and ecology; this builds a common horizon.
  • Seek reconciliation promptly when conflicts arise, practising non‑judgemental dialogue and patient listening.

4) Intellectual and apostolic mission

  • Draw up a realistic work schedule that honours both creativity and rest; overproduction without integration can fragment the heart.
  • Engage continuously with Church documents, teachings, world situations, synodal reflections and contemporary theology, especially where they intersect with your work mission.
  • Mentor at least a few persons—children, students, friends, collaborators—in combining faith, thought and action, helping them develop their own life plans.

5) Ecological conversion and eco‑mysticism

  • Let creation become a sacrament of encounter: treat each walk, tree, river or sunrise as an opportunity to praise and intercede for the world. ​
  • Integrate practical ecology into daily habits: reduce waste, conserve energy, support local green initiatives, and bring these themes into catechesis and liturgy.
  • Cultivate universal brotherhood by building bridges with people of other faiths and cultures around shared concern for the Earth and the poor.

6) Ongoing evaluation and review

  • Schedule a quarterly review of your plan: What has borne fruit? What feels forced? Where is the Spirit inviting adjustment?
  • Use yearly retreats or major feasts (Easter, Pentecost, Francis of Assisi) as moments to renew and perhaps rewrite parts of your plan.
  • Above all, measure “success” not by productivity but by growth in faith, hope, love, joy and compassion.

In all this, the aim is not to control life but to offer it: like bread and wine on the altar, like creation in Teilhard’s cosmic Mass, like Don Bosco’s “Da mihi animas, cetera tolle.”

 

6. Questions for personal reflection

To deepen the move from “will to live” to “willed life,” you might pray with questions like these at the start of the year or during a retreat:

  1. When I look back over the past year, where do I recognise moments when I truly lived—when I felt aligned with God’s will, fully present, and generous?
  2. Where do I notice patterns of fragmentation—overwork, escapism, anger, compulsive use of media, or neglect of relationships? What do these reveal about my unspoken fears or false securities?
  3. How clearly have I named God’s call in my current context—family, community, ministry, creation? If I had to summarise it in two sentences, what would I say?
  4. Which dimension of my life plan (human, spiritual, community, intellectual, apostolic, ecological, emotional) is most integrated at present? Which one is most neglected?
  5. What one concrete step can I take this month to bring my free will into deeper harmony with God’s will—something small but specific, that I can review at the end of the month?
  6. If someone were to read my calendar, budget and daily routine, what would they conclude are my real priorities? How close is that image to the Gospel priorities of Jesus?
  7. In the light of Laudato Si’ and the cry of the Earth and the poor, how is God inviting me to widen my circle of concern beyond my immediate comfort zone?​

Conclusion: “Today, with you, Lord”

To will a willed life is ultimately to say each morning: “Today, Lord, I choose to live with you, in you, and for you.” It is to entrust our plans to the One who makes all things new, while taking responsibility for each concrete choice.

As 2026 unfolds, the invitation is simple and demanding: write your life’s plan with a strong will, but write it together with the Holy Spirit; be determined to love those you love most and those you naturally avoid; care for your own heart so that it may become a home for God and a shelter for others; let your relationship with creation become a school of praise and solidarity.

Your gift of a daily, willed life—no matter how hidden—helps secure the future of God’s plan in building the Kingdom. It is an ongoing “yes” that allows Christ to live his own willed life in you, for the blessing of many, long after this year has passed.​ 

No comments:

Post a Comment

DO YOU WILL TO LIVE A WILLED LIFE ?

The will to live a willed life is, at its deepest level, the desire to let God’s will and our free will meet in a loving, creative partnersh...